We create our own reality - at least that’s the concept. The question is - how many people actually take charge in any way of their lives on an energy level. How many people just “go with the flow” - or just believe that “things happen”.
Reality and the life pattern are built at the soul level - and input for that creation of the life comes from
1. The conscious mind asking
2. The subconscious mind which can be feeding fears and doubts - a lot depends on how a person has conditioned their subconscious mind. (If they have made statements like - everything always turns out for the best - I am always protected - something good always turns up -you can see how this would influence their subconscious’s input)
3. Words that a person says and words that they hear
4. Input from others if there is no input from the conscious mind or the subconscious mind. (It has always been interesting to me that “others” so seldom wish a person well - not because they wouldn’t if they thought about it - but because of their own personal baggage. Their jealousies, envy, greed, competitiveness and just plain ignorance get in the way. Few people really realize how much of an impact their thoughts, words, emotions and energies have on others.)
Because the soul will build your reality from your own input first, it is important that you provide input - and not allow the vagaries of what might be in your environment or the people who are around you.
If you know something that you would like to have in your life - you might go about it this way:
Say “I ask these things of my soul” three times
Then say “I ask that …” three times.
Then say “Thank you” three times.
You will be surprised how fast this very simple process will work.
Years ago, when my daughter was young, we had an opportunity to experience just how fast this works. It was the weekend - and she was distraught about the lack of social life that she had been having. It was a Sunday morning - she sat down in meditation and asked for a friend - within the hour a lovely girl called and my daughter and she spent the afternoon together. This girl became a lifelong friend.